The World We Dare to Imagine Part #1

"Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around." 

- Leo Buscaglia

When I first considered this topic, I wasn't entirely sure where I wanted to take it. To begin, I started with a broad reflection of our world, trying to point out what areas needed improvement the most, based on my personal views. It was during this time that the issue of widespread hate really hit home for me. It’s become something like a spreading disease, fueled by differences in race, religion, politics, hobbies—you name it.

What struck me most is how we’ve started moving away from the idea that it’s perfectly fine for everyone to have their own opinions. This shift has led to more and more people seeking comfort in groups of others who think just like they do, which only makes these negative attitudes stronger and more widespread.

Moreover, I feel this hate also takes a toll on our personal relationships. As it currently stands, it is becoming harder for people to maintain connections with those who have different views than their own. This is not just sad, it's extremely dangerous. When we lose the ability to connect with others across the basic lines of our own opinion, we weaken the entirety of our social fabric. This kind of division can lead to the fracturing of entire communities and is probably one of the leading reasons why we have seen such an increase in incidents of violence and unrest in the past decade. 

Thinking about this is what led me to my solution to making the world a better place, and although a very simple idea, I feel like it could go a long way in our society. Compliments. The beauty of a compliment lies in how little they require, and the reality of their impact. When you compliment someone, you're not just acknowledging something good about them, you also create a small connection. Although to some it may seem pointless, compliments can be incredibly validating and uplifting. Especially in times like today, when it seems like everybody always finds a way to find the negative in any interaction. 

When people feel noticed, valued, and loved they are more likely to pass on that positivity to others. My goal is that compliments could help create a ripple effect, with each small act of appreciation changing the tone of our conversations and the nature of our relationships. 

So in conclusion, I want you all to try and make it a habit to notice the positive traits in others, whether it's complimenting a friend on something they've done well or telling a stranger that you like their outfit. These moments of appreciation can do more than just lift spirits, they help remind us of the kindness within us all. By creating a new atmosphere, where positivity thrives, we pave the way for a future that everybody can feel a part of. 

Comments

  1. Brenton, this was quite the powerful post. I too advocate for the little things; my own post was regarding kindness. However, what we have in common is that we consider the importance of the little things. To make a change we need not to do huge modifications, but start with small actions. A way I think you could take the next step is to hold yourself accountable, and make sure you follow through on a small action at least once every day.

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  2. Brenton, I completely agree with you. Positivity is extremely contagious, and it only takes one person to start it. I think it is great that you are incorporating this into your life, and it will not be long until your goal starts to spread to others. I am a big believer in kindness, and I think your path to a world we dare to imagine is a great start!

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  3. Brenton, this was a pleasure to read. I could not agree more that while a compliment may seem simple, they have the power to do so much. I think as a society we constantly try so hard to push eachother down, that we have forgotten how amazing it can be to uplift those around you.

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  4. I love your idea, Brenton! I've had similar realizations lately, and I've included them in my posts. I think far too often people want to blend in and look for a quick fix in a fast-moving industry, they lose sight of what they really care about. I know I am, for sure. Reading your posts reminded me of what I love and enjoy, which are connections and learning others' stories! - Justin

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